About Idil

Making the decision to start therapy can feel both empowering and overwhelming, I’m here to help.

I am a licensed psychotherapist and I help clients who are struggling with anxiety, self doubt, perfectionism, and OCD increase self-trust and break free from over-thinking and anxious thought patterns.

I use practical, evidence-based tools to teach you how to recognize and challenge anxious thoughts, so you can live a life grounded in your values instead of getting stuck on the “what ifs?”.

In my work with clients, I also focus on nurturing self-compassion, empowering you to be a "good friend" to yourself and challenge that pesky inner critic. In sessions with me you can expect to receive support, validation, feedback as well as practical tools to facilitate change.

As a first generation American, I specialize in helping clients who are first generation American, immigrants or children of immigrants and navigating the world through the lens of two different cultures while maintaining a strong sense of self.

My Approach to Therapy

My approach as a therapist is compassionate, curious and non-judgmental. I often use my sense of humor to connect with clients. I show up to sessions as my authentic self to encourage you to come as you are.

I'm not just a listener; I'm an active participant in sessions, I offer direct feedback and incorporate therapeutic skills in sessions. I offer a safe space for introspection, and ask questions to help you grow and make real progress.

In our sessions together, we'll collaborate to identify what you'd like to achieve in therapy. I'll offer compassionate support and practical tools to help you navigate life's complexities with confidence. I use an anti-oppressive lens in therapy and am proudly LGBTQ+ affirming.

My approach incorporates a range of evidence-based therapies including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Inference-Based CBT (I-CBT), Executive Functioning Coaching, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). For couples, I utilize the renowned Gottman Method to support the development of stronger, more resilient relationships.

If you’re not familiar with what all these modalities mean, that’s okay!

It can be hard to imagine what a therapy session might feel like from reading a bio, which is why I encourage scheduling a free consultation to see if I’m the right therapist for your goals. There is never any pressure to book a session from a consult. 

Specialties

My Specialties Include:

  •  Anxiety, including generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety disorder

  • Self doubt, perfectionism & low self-esteem

  • Relationship & dating issues

  • Obsessive thinking & rumination

  • First-generation American/Children of Immigrants

  • Mental health issues related to chronic illness, chronic pain and/or disability

We May Be a Good Fit If:

  •  You are feeling anxious, chronically overwhelmed, and over-thinking everything

  • You’re often too hard on yourself, often doubt yourself, and want to build self-trust

  • You’re first generation American and want to feel understood by your therapist in this experience

  • You’re constantly doubting yourself in dating or in your relationships

  • You enjoy working with therapists who are engaged, direct, positive, and relational.

  • You’re ready to connect with yourself and achieve your goals!

We May Not Be a Good Fit If:

  • You are experiencing symptoms that require a higher level of care such as substance abuse or active thoughts of violence. For these symptoms, I recommend treatment at an inpatient or structured outpatient program before starting psychotherapy. You can learn more about these programs here.

  • You are not residing in New York or New Jersey

  • You are looking for family therapy or therapy for a minor

Education, Background And Credentials

I received my master’s in Social Work from Columbia University School of Social Work in New York, NY and I received my bachelor’s in Behavioral Neuroscience from Northeastern University in Boston, MA.

Prior to private practice, I worked in neuroscience and psychology research, inpatient psychiatry in hospital settings, and mental health programs for people with mental illness, chronic illness and disabilities. Before starting my own practice, I worked for years in group practices in New York City. In prior group practice settings, I also held the role of Operations Manager in addition to seeing clients.

I understand that it may feel challenging to open up to a stranger. To help you get to know me a little better, here are a few personal facts about me:

  • I love music and enjoy discovering new artists. I'm always happy to talk about what I'm currently listening to or hear your recommendations on what to add to my record collection.

  • My newest hobby is floral design, I’ve taken a few classes and enjoy picking out flowers to create a bouquet or centerpiece design.

  • I believe in the power of community care and enjoy volunteering with local organizations in NYC that support people with disabilities and those experiencing homelessness.

Certifications and Licenses:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

    • CBT for insomnia

    • CBT for chronic pain

    • Inference-based CBT (I-CBT) for OCD

  • Treatment of Perfectionism and OCD (ERP)

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

  • The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy

  • Executive Functioning Support for ADHD

Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York and New Jersey

NY License #096925

NJ License #44SC06499100

 

Get in Touch

If you’re curious about starting therapy or have any other questions, fill out a contact form and I will be in touch in 1-2 business days!