About

Hi, I’m Idil!

As a licensed psychotherapist, I specialize in working with clients who are struggling with anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, and OCD. I help clients break free from the cycles of over-thinking and ground themselves in self-trust.

As a first-generation American, I specialize in helping clients who are first-generation, immigrants or children of immigrants and navigating the world through the lens of two different cultures while maintaining a strong sense of self. I enjoy working with couples navigating international or multi-cultural backgrounds in their relationship.

A Compassionate, Collaborative and Evidence-Based Approach.

My approach as a therapist is collaborative, non-judgmental and curious. I often use my sense of humor to connect with clients. I show up to sessions as my authentic self to encourage you to come as you are.

Together, we'll explore your goals and identify what you’d like to achieve in therapy. Our work together will not just be a “venting” session, I’ll offer direct feedback, reflective questions, and practical tools to help you make progress and gain insight. I’ll help you recognize and silence your inner critic and choose self-compassion instead of shame and self-blame.

My approach incorporates a range of evidence-based treatment models including:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Inference-Based CBT (I-CBT)

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)

and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)

For couples, I utilize the renowned Gottman Method to support the development of stronger, more resilient relationships. I use an anti-oppressive, anti-racist lens in therapy and am proudly LGBTQ+ affirming.

If you’re not familiar with what all these modalities mean, that’s okay!

It can be hard to imagine what a therapy session might feel like from reading a bio, which is why I encourage scheduling a free consultation to see if I’m the right therapist for your goals. There is never any pressure to book a session from a consult. 

Less circling, more moving forward.

Insight is the starting point; action is the goal. If you’re ready to break out of old patterns and move toward a more grounded perspective, I’m here to help you take that next step.

Education, Background And Credentials.

I received my master’s in Social Work from Columbia University School of Social Work in New York, NY and I received my bachelor’s in Behavioral Neuroscience from Northeastern University in Boston, MA.

Prior to private practice, I worked in neuroscience and psychology research, inpatient psychiatry, and mental health day programs for individuals with mental illness and disabilities. Before starting my own practice, I worked for years in group practices in New York City. Currently, in addition to my clinical caseload, I also provide clinical supervision and mentorship to therapists-in-training.

Certifications and Licenses:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

    • CBT for insomnia

    • CBT for chronic pain

    • Inference-based CBT (I-CBT) for OCD

  • Treatment of Perfectionism and OCD (ERP)

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

  • The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy

  • Executive Functioning Support for ADHD

Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York and New Jersey

  • NY License #096925

  • NJ License #44SC06499100

A Little More About Me.

I understand that opening up to a stranger can feel daunting, especially about difficult topics like intrusive thoughts, anxiety and OCD. So I’ve included some facts about myself to help you get to know me a little better:

  • Music. I’m always happy to discuss what I’m currently listening to, or hear your recommendations on what to add to my record collection.

  • Plants & Design. I love taking care of my plants and having fresh flowers at home. I’m currently learning the Japanese art of floral design called Ikebana.

  • Community. I enjoy volunteering with local organizations in NYC that support people with disabilities and those experiencing homelessness.

Let’s start the conversation. If you’re ready to move toward what matters most to you, I’d love to help. Fill out the contact form below to get in touch and schedule a free consultation!

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